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Book of Courage, The
Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage   Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage - 1. Looking Out For Others
John T.Faris
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       _ CHAPTER SIX. GOLDEN RULE COURAGE
       I. LOOKING OUT FOR OTHERS
       "There is so much good in the worst of us,
       And so much bad in the best of us,
       That it hardly becomes any of us
       To talk about the rest of us."
       THAT popular rhyme hits the nail squarely on the head. We are not to judge others. The world would be a pleasanter dwelling place if we would lay aside our critical attitude, and look on the best side of the men and women about us. Instead, however, it sometimes seems as if we were determined to forget all the good, and remember only the evil. Our additions to the comments of others are not praise, but blame. We do not seek to correct an unfavorable comment by saying, "But think of the good there is in his life"; we insist on drowning merited praise by saying, "But think how selfish he is; how careless of the comfort of others!" That is the cowardly thing to do. And life calls for courage.
       The worst thing about the maker of such comments is that the readier he is to see--or imagine--faults in another, the more blind he is apt to become to faults in himself. This inability to see his own shortcomings would be ludicrous if it were not so pitiful. Yet these shortcomings are apparent to all who know him. Jesus, who knew human nature, said, "Judge not, that ye be not judged ... first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye."
       The courageous task of reforming ourselves seems prodigious when we think what good opinions we have of ourselves and what poor opinions we have of others, but the task is not impossible, for God has promised to give us the help we need, and He will never disappoint us. An earthly father knows how to give good things to his children; shall not the Heavenly Father do as much and more?
       Since we have such a Father, it is the least we can do to learn of Him the true philosophy of life. Listen while He tells us what it is:
       "All things, therefore, whatsoever ye would that men should do unto you, even so do ye also unto them."
       Impossible and impracticable? Let us see.
       I. LOOKING OUT FOR OTHERS
       The president of a big manufacturing concern, who is also its active operating head, is quoted as saying that he finds a growing tendency among young men to go after business by sharp practice when they cannot get it any other way. They will "cut the corners of a square deal to land an order." In applying for positions, he goes on to say, some young fellows have tried to recommend themselves by telling how they got orders for former employers by some neat trick.
       "I have had to tell them, square and plain," he adds, "that there wasn't any recommendation in that kind of talk with me. I have made up my mind that I am going to write out some plain talks on righteousness and post them up around the offices and shops where everybody will have a chance to read them. I have explained my plan about these bulletins to a number of other manufacturers, and I think several of them are going to do the same thing. Besides the moral reasons for the policy, it's the only policy to build up a sound business on. Take even the men who would be willing to make profit for themselves by shady deals, and they all want to buy goods for themselves of a firm that they can depend on. I think our history this past year has proved the wisdom of it; business has been rolling in from points that we never had an idea of getting anything from. The Golden Rule works."
       Nathan Strauss was once asked what contributed most to his remarkable success. "I always looked out for the man at the other end of the bargain," he said.
       In 1901 the State of Wisconsin struck a beautiful bronze medal in honor of Professor Stephen Moulton Babcock, the inventor of the milk test machine. Professor Babcock, so one admirer says, "knew its value to farmer and dairyman. He also knew its possibilities of fortune for himself. This invention has 'increased the wealth of nations by many millions of dollars and made continual new developments possible in butter and cheesemaking.' All this Professor Babcock knew it would do when he announced his discovery in a little bulletin to the farmers of Wisconsin. But at the bottom of that bulletin he added the brief and unselfish sentence, 'this test is not patented.' With that sentence he cheerfully let a fortune go. He wanted his invention to help other people, rather than make himself rich."
       What a difference it would make if everyone should take the Golden Rule as the motto for each day, asking Christ's help in living in accordance with it! What a difference it would make in every home if father and mother and all the sons and daughters should resolve to make theirs a Golden-Rule household! The first thing necessary in bringing about such a change in the home is for one member to make the resolution and to do his best to live up to it. Others will follow inevitably when they note his careful, unselfish life and helpful acts.
       There is a Jewish tradition that a Gentile came to Hillel asking to be taught the law, in a few words, while he stood on one foot. The answer was given, "Whatsoever thou wouldst that men should not do to thee, that do not thou to them." This was good, as far as it went, but there was nothing positive about it. Christ's teaching supplies the lack, showing what we are to do as well as what we are to leave undone. Christ always gives the touch required to make old teachings glow with life. _
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Foreword
Chapter 1. The Courage Of Self-Conquest
   Chapter 1. The Courage Of Self-Conquest - 1. Restraining Self
   Chapter 1. The Courage Of Self-Conquest - 2. Effacing Self
   Chapter 1. The Courage Of Self-Conquest - 3. Forgiving Injuries
   Chapter 1. The Courage Of Self-Conquest - 4. Forgetting Wrongs
   Chapter 1. The Courage Of Self-Conquest - 5. Getting Rid Of Evil
   Chapter 1. The Courage Of Self-Conquest - 6. Looking Beyond Money
Chapter 2. The Courage That Faces Obstacles
   Chapter 2. The Courage That Faces Obstacles - 1. Learning
   Chapter 2. The Courage That Faces Obstacles - 2. Depending On Self
   Chapter 2. The Courage That Faces Obstacles - 3. Uncomplaining
   Chapter 2. The Courage That Faces Obstacles - 4. Persisting
   Chapter 2. The Courage That Faces Obstacles - 5. Toiling
   Chapter 2. The Courage That Faces Obstacles - 6. Conquering Infirmity
Chapter 3. The Courage Of Industry
   Chapter 3. The Courage Of Industry - 1. Beginning
   Chapter 3. The Courage Of Industry - 2. Purpose Forming
   Chapter 3. The Courage Of Industry - 3. Using Time Wisely
   Chapter 3. The Courage Of Industry - 4. Working Harder
   Chapter 3. The Courage Of Industry - 5. Abusing The Will To Work
Chapter 4. The Courage Of Facing Consequences
   Chapter 4. The Courage Of Facing Consequences - 1. Venturing
   Chapter 4. The Courage Of Facing Consequences - 2. Forming Character
   Chapter 4. The Courage Of Facing Consequences - 3. Truth Telling
   Chapter 4. The Courage Of Facing Consequences - 4. Duty Doing
   Chapter 4. The Courage Of Facing Consequences - 5. Finding His Life
Chapter 5. Courage For The Sake Of Others
   Chapter 5. Courage For The Sake Of Others - 1. Imparting Courage
   Chapter 5. Courage For The Sake Of Others - 2. Conquering Happiness
   Chapter 5. Courage For The Sake Of Others - 3. Making Little Things Count
   Chapter 5. Courage For The Sake Of Others - 4. Did He Go Too Far?
Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage
   Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage - 1. Looking Out For Others
   Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage - 2. Succeeding By Courageous Service
   Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage - 3. Service By Sympathy
   Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage - 4. Doing Business For Others
   Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage - 5. Praying And Helping
   Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage - 6. Giving That Counts
   Chapter 6. Golden Rule Courage - 7. Expensive Economy
Chapter 7. Courage Through Companionship
   Chapter 7. Courage Through Companionship - 1. Companionship With Friends
   Chapter 7. Courage Through Companionship - 2. Successful Comrades
   Chapter 7. Courage Through Companionship - 3. Companionship With The Past
   Chapter 7. Courage Through Companionship - 4. Companionship With Nature
   Chapter 7. Courage Through Companionship - 5. Companionship With God
   Chapter 7. Courage Through Companionship - 6. A Chapter Of--Accidents?
Chapter 8. God The Source Of Courage
   Chapter 8. God The Source Of Courage - 1. That's For Me!
   Chapter 8. God The Source Of Courage - 2. Banking On God's Promises
   Chapter 8. God The Source Of Courage - 3. Practical Precepts From Proverbs
   Chapter 8. God The Source Of Courage - 4. Getting Close To The Bible
   Chapter 8. God The Source Of Courage - 5. The Bible And One Man
   Chapter 8. God The Source Of Courage - 6. Out Of The Depths